WHY YOUR 30s ARE BETTER THAN YOUR 20s

They say life often gets better after 30, no matter what some old school idea of being a "grown up" and having "responsibility" implies about not having fun anymore or not having a highly enjoyable life. 

Is 30 the new 20? No, because it's way, way better than 20 ever was or ever will be. Here's why:

Your Style and sense of fashion gets better 

If you recall your fashion sense back in the days, you wore a lot of unflattering stuff, and you wasted a ton of money trying to 'catch up' with fashion. But now you know what works on your body, you like your body, you like its uniqueness that make you special, and you know how to dress it—well. 

Your Head Gets…Clearer

I could write a novel on the clarity that comes with life experience. You become one with who you are, and that means you start making the right decisions for yourself. You realize you don't necessarily have to do what everyone expects or tells you.You can and will reason every situation before making a decision. You'll really start to freely think about what works for you, and you'll find that though you may go through a transition, you'll end up on the right side of what you need to be happy. 

Your Heart Gets…Lovelier

I mean this figuratively, your emotions will evolve. Chances are, you've had a couple of heartbreaking moments by now - a few breakups and that ex you never thought you will get over. In your 20s, you think you'll never recover. In your 30s, you have recovered into a better partner, a better friend and a better person, making life all around you more bearable. All that were innevitable to make you a better you.

Your Time Gets…More Precious

You finally figure out there are so many better things to be doing with your time than stalking someone on social media etc. You're just not going to let people waste your time like you did back in the day. Why? How? Because your higher self-confidence gives you permission to love your own company and not look for validation solely from the approval of others. You get to focus on more important issues, you will look for ways to advance your career, education, skills and experience

Your Emotions Get…Perspective

Because you've been through some downs, you really get to appreciate your ups. Gratitude is one of the most lovely feelings we can have, and it increases with age, just like self-love. I don't say that just to sound encouraging, this really happens. Almost without warning, you will start handling matters differently, you will become the better, quiet version of yourself - In other words, you'll no longer sweat the small stuff.It's that whole self-confidence thing. You're not afraid to say what you do and do not like, partly because you know how to say it without making it the biggest deal ever.