What if the chances of you meeting him is like picking up a needle in hay......
For some people being alone is what feels most natural.Some people are actually proud of their solo relationship status and even ready to commit to it. Nadine Schweigert married herself in a symbolic wedding ceremony. The 36-year-old divorced mom of three wore blue satin and clutched a bouquet of white roses as she walked down the aisle before a gathering of 45 friends and family members in Fargo, North Dakota.
She vowed to "to enjoy inhabiting my own life and to relish a lifelong love affair with my beautiful self," reports Fargo's InForum newspaper . After the ring was exchanged with the bride and her inner-groom, guests were encouraged to "blow kisses at the world," and later, eat cake.
What if people want to enjoy their own company for the rest of their lives.......Shouldn't they get a moment in the spotlight, the chance to wear a way-too-expensive dress for a few hours, the few days off from work for 'honeymoon', the wedding presents and the like.......
And while we're on the subject of weddings, consider the benefits of a one-person affair. No dueling families, no massive guest list, no pre-wedding am-I-doing-the-right-thing meltdowns. It may seem indulgent to plan a big reception for yourself but you are doing it for YOU. Say you marry yourself and then cheat and you get caught, the split would be free of nasty fights, lawyers and custody battles. You get everything. Problem solved.........or so to say....
Marriage is about union, it's about partnership, most of all, it's about compromising on and sharing the things in your life that are hard to compromise on or share—from small issues to bigger ones.....
What do you think..........
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