Mwanadada: Abuse

Tuesday, 8 March 2016

HAPPY WOMEN'S DAY 2016

To all the women in the world - Happy International Women's Day

On this day, I remember all the women going through marital issues, child bearing issues, depression, raising your children, condemned by the society, going through all kinds of ill-treatment just because you are a woman - GOD loves you

We celebrate you in your unique ways as God so much loved us and wanted us to share his creation of mankind and gave us nurturing abilities.

Whatever you are going through you are stronger than that and you will come through on the other side of this tunnel just trust in God and all will be well.

~PLEDGEFORPARITY~

Everyone - men and women - can pledge to take a concrete step to help achieve gender parity more quickly - whether to help women and girls achieve their ambitions, call for gender-balanced leadership, respect and value difference, develop more inclusive and flexible cultures or root out workplace bias. Each of us can be a leader within our own spheres of influence and commit to take pragmatic action to accelerate gender parity.

MAKE A PLEDGE TODAY

Friday, 17 April 2015

XENOPHOBIA:FOREIGNERS ATTACKS IN SOUTH AFRICA

With current events happening in South Africa I think it is about time we declare this as an emergency situation and measures has to be taken to stop this.

Why would a foreigner who has been around us all the time for years suddenly becomes a stranger. Let us not confuse xenophobia with patriotism.

At some point South Africans were foreigners in other African countries during independence movement against apartheid regime. Why were they not attacked then instead they were offered help and assistance at the time.

What is so good about killing and attacking innocent people 'foreigners'

I can'T imagine the shock of this kid on his mother's back - will this nightmare ever leave his head

Wednesday, 29 January 2014

FOR THE BROKEN HEARTED.....

This is for the broken hearted. I know how you feel. Empty, betrayed, and no happiness whatsoever. You don't want to laugh, because you know it's not going to help, but you don't want to cry, because it will just make you feel worse. You feel like your heart is falling apart, but not only that, but you know soon your life is going to feel like it's falling apart too. You don't think it will ever end, and no matter what this person has done to you, it feels impossible to stop loving them. And everyone wonders why if they have hurt you so much, then why do you still love them. That's the confusing part, you don't know why, you just do, and the people who hurt you the most, and normally the ones you love the most. And then, after a few weeks, you finally feel a sense of relief, like you're getting happy again, but you know inside that you're just going into denial.

And after a few more weeks, you're back to where you were an empty soul and ...teary eyes. You thought you got over them, but really, you just stopped showing it. And you can't help but to show it again. It leaves deep scars on your heart that are there forever. And no one understands how you feel, and how deep you are hurt, no matter who they are, because it hasn't happened to them And even if it has, every broken heart is different. They don't know the true pain you feel and carry each and everyday now, so you learn that basically you are alone with all this. And the feeling starts to overwhelm you, and suddenly you just break down, right there, because you know you've had enough, the tears just instantly start flowing, and you're to the point where you don't care who see's. Because you've spent so many nights lying awake in bed, and so many days being haunted by the scars and fear of rejection.

And in the midst of all these tears, you know that its not helping any, and it's not going to bring them back, if you ever even had them in the first place. After about a million tears have been cried, you finally pull yourself back together and keep going. Your throat starts to clench and your eyes burn with the tears you are trying to hold back. Everyone says, "It will be okay…” But you know it won't. And that’s the truth, it won’t. And you look back on all of the hurt you had from this, and you realize that people are horrible. You're still hurt, but you've learned to hide it so that everyone thinks you are okay. So now every time you see this person, you know you still love them, and you feel a slight tingle in your heart yearning for them to love you, screaming out, but for some reason they don't hear it.

And then you sit back and wonder how one person could have caused all of this...and then YOU MOVE ON and BE HAPPY with your life....

Tuesday, 17 September 2013

COURT IN INDIA SENTENCES 4 MEN FOR RAPE AND MURDER

The four Indian men who attacked and raped a 23 year old student on a Delhi bus on December 16th 2012, have been sentenced to death by hanging. An Indian court ruled on Friday September 13th that the men deserved to die for the vicious attack which left the victim with such severe internal injuries she died two weeks later.

The victim and her boyfriend were returning from a movie date when they encountered the rapists inside one of India’s many private buses. The driver of the bus and four friends had taken the bus out into the night, looking for sex. Unfortunately the victim and her boyfriend got into the bus not knowing what would happen next.

According to court documents, the men attacked the couple, beating them before taking the woman to the back of the bus and raping her one by one, then penetrating her body with iron rods. She died at a hospital in Singapore several days later. The bus driver, Ram Singh, committed suicide in his jail cell in March. The judge said in court today that they are hoping the sentence will serve as a ‘strong deterrent’ to others in a country where crimes against women, especially rape, is on the rise.